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When you are in twin flame separation, you probably have tried everything to let them go. You have looked for signs that the masculine twin flame is awakening. You might have done cord-cutting meditations, written them away in a journal, been angry, been forgiving, been loving, tried to blame the whole twin flame narrative…

But no matter what you do, they will keep coming back to your mind.

I certainly have done all those things. I tried to find confirmation that my twin flame was a karmic connection, a false twin, a catalyst for the real one who is about to come. But every time I tried to cut our connection, it made me feel worse.

I think this is because I didn’t understand it all along. The truth is, I can never cut this connection because I was missing a vital point.

Twin flames are the ultimate balancing act. What they have, you lack, and vice versa. The masculine and feminine energies between you and within you are out of balance. As long as you don’t balance these energies, the connection will keep showing up.

The healing feminine

I’ve read and watched so many twin flame stories in the last few years and noticed there is often one common experience. The divine feminine (which can also be the male twin flame) feels like they need to heal their divine masculine counterpart.

As toxic as this sounds, there might be a truth in it. Our society is so focused on individual healing, and every psychologist/healer/doctor would confirm this:

“You cannot heal anyone but yourself.”

I’ve often written this in my own articles as well because it felt like that would make so much more sense. Heal yourself, and don’t focus on anyone else. When you heal, they heal. Your healing affects them directly as well.

You get it.

Repressing Your Own Energy

But what if this self-healing idea is the whole reason why our energies are out of balance in the first place? The feminine has been so focused on healing herself that she dismisses the divine abilities she has to heal the masculine as well.

Be aware that being overly healing towards your twin is also a sign that you are repressing the true feminine energy in you. Constantly seeking refuge in healing others blocks you from embracing your own healing power towards yourself.

The result is that the masculine energy in our world is completely out of whack. Control, greed, and power take over when the masculine is dominant.

The feminine refusing to heal the masculine (whether that is an external twin flame or her own masculinity), makes the masculine side in herself become dominant. She gets too absorbed by her own well-being that the real femininity in her is being pushed away.

This is also true for the feminine who only wants to heal others (being too feminine), as steering away from her own shadows can also become an addiction or a coping technique. This has nothing to do with real healing.

Divine Feminine vs Divine Masculine Twin Flame

The masculine twin flame, on the other hand, feels like he is all by himself in this process. Where he used to feel the power of the healing feminine, now he just feels rejection and a closed door.

The masculine in a twin soul couple is too masculine, and the feminine is too feminine. This can also reverse during the relationship. That is why this connection feels like coming home — you finally found your repressed opposite energy.

A Masculine feminine Twin Flame

For example, in my own twin flame relationship, my twin was more feminine towards me when we first met. At first, he saw the potential in me and wanted to get it out. So, he did this by trying to control me and punishing me for not following his advice. He wanted to heal me because he thought I was broken. But he refused to heal himself.

Me, on the other hand, was too masculine. I was afraid to commit and wanted to stay super independent. I didn’t want to let love in and was always protecting myself — always ready to escape when I needed to.

Those roles reversed at some point, as I felt the ultimate need to sacrifice myself to help him. I focused completely on healing him and failed to recognize my own shadows.

The scared masculine

Yes, I wrote scared and not sacred. A masculine twin flame is scared. They are scared to let the feminine heal them. Because healing would mean they have to let go of all they believed in. Healing would mean giving up their control. Healing would mean surrendering to something outside of themselves.

And most of us have been told since childhood that we should never let anything outside of ourselves get the better of us. We always have to step into our own power. This makes us not want to accept that we can be healed by someone else. We have to practice non-attachment, right?

But it’s pretty clear to me that our planet has been ruled for centuries by the (toxic) masculine. They burnt witches, they fought wars, they gained land that was never meant to be theirs, they killed, raped, and murdered.

Not just twin flames, but our whole Universe is out of balance.

And now the feminine is stepping up. I feel it all around me, and many twin flames or spiritual healers talk about this, too. We reached a new era where we should work together, not against each other.

The ultimate secret to twin flame Reunion

So, if the masculine needs the feminine to be in balance, how does this work with twin flame couples? How can the feminine heal her masculine twin soul when she is out of balance herself?

After all, the masculine twin keeps rejecting her, and her energy is probably being sucked out of her after spending time with him.

The feminine feels drained by this whole connection, which makes total sense since the masculine is taking the sacred femininity from her because he is lacking that himself.

It certainly happened to me this way. After my twin soul and I spent time together where everything felt so connected ,  I was left feeling mostly empty afterwards. My twin flame had taken all my healing energy with him.

How to heal the Divine masculine?

And he kept living his too-masculine life, so this energy would vanish into the ether and go nowhere. Which meant my sacred feminine energy was now out of both of us. Until I had nothing left and had no other choice but to leave him.

And this is where the ultimate secret to twin flame union gets embodied: the feminine has to preserve her energy to heal the masculine. And to preserve that energy, she has to step into her masculinity to walk away.

This will start balancing the masculine and feminine inside of her, which automatically also balances the masculine twin.

This is the true twin flame union.

Twin flame union might not be possible in the human form

When nothing feels right on this journey, there is only one final solution.

Love.

You cannot physically be together because it drains you, but you also can’t be separated because it makes you feel miserable.

So, what to do?

The feminine has to heal her masculine twin from a distance.

We are not just humans on this planet. We are Souls living a human experience. If the human connection doesn’t feel reachable, it will not serve you to try to forget your twin or give them all sorts of labels, like false twin, karmic, etc.

It will also not serve you to keep dwelling on the past and hoping every day your twin will come back to you.

Don’t reject the connection

This connection is real, and there is no point in rejecting it. Instead, feel the connection in a different realm. That doesn’t mean you should keep obsessing over your twin and hoping for a real (human) reunion.

It means you utilize your feminine power to heal someone just because you love them unconditionally. Not because you expect they will return to you.

If our whole Universe is out of balance, we all need to start healing. We can’t be selfish with that energy because it’s meant for all of us. The fact that you are blessed with this feminine love means we have to give it freely.

Even to the people who hurt us. Actually, especially to the people who hurt us.

Sending our healing energy to whoever needs it without letting that person suck it out of us, will balance the masculine inside of us as well. We step into our power while we are giving the gift of healing.

Masculine twin flame awakening

If you have determined that your masculine twin needs healing, how do you do that without physically being together?

See it as energy. Everything is energy, so if you send positive healing energy to your twin, they will receive it one way or another.

This can be done by simply thinking about them positively ; you need to have compassion for the hard journey they are on. It’s not easy to be an overly masculine twin, and they need feminine energy more than ever. Send them healing vibrations during meditations and stop talking shit about them.

Nourish your own feminine power inside of you, and feel blessed for not having to receive their toxic masculinity anymore. You can only heal them by protecting yourself. Your own masculine energy will be balanced by this decision as well.

Why you cannot hate your twin flame

Hate, jealousy, and disconnection are also energies you send out, and when somebody receives that, it gets inside of them too. And our world needs less of that, not more. That is why you feel shitty when you try to cut the connection.

If you are in balance with your feminine and masculine sides, you can shield yourself from the toxic energies and just give love.

Darkness gets illuminated when a light shines on it.

And the irony here is that by sending healing vibes to your masculine twin, you also heal yourself. That masculine counterpart might just hurt one less person. And maybe one day he will be able to step into his own feminine healing power as well.

Once you realize that we are all One, there really is no such thing as separation.

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**I am using ‘she’ and ‘her’ in this article to describe the feminine, but a man can also be the feminine twin and a woman the masculine twin. Just for the sake of clarity, I used these pronouns throughout the story.