How To Use Telepathy During Separation?

I recently separated from someone who thought I was his soulmate. Our connection was deep, spiritual, and very sexual. But I wasn’t into him enough to commit to a relationship. 

He tried everything to convince me we should be together — after all, he definitely felt the higher connection. And I felt it too, especially when I forced myself to be present with him. 

The truth is, I am comparing every guy I meet to one particular person (my ‘twin flame’) whom I dated five years ago. 

Spiritual connection

Since then, I have been way more connected to spirituality, my higher self, and especially my intuition. My twin flame forced me into a deep state of healing and getting to know myself. 

The result was that I learned to listen to my inner voice and could, at some point, also use it to listen to other people. 

When you first have a telepathic connection with someone, you might think it’s just a coincidence. For example, you suddenly think about them, and your mood might change according to their mood. Or maybe you have very vivid dreams about them.

Sometimes, you get a specific message about the person, which you didn’t think of before. Once you learn to listen to these messages, you are also capable of having a two-way conversation. 

How to activate telepathy During Separation? 

Telepathy only works when you are completely present. You cannot be thinking about the future or the past, or about your shopping list, or anything else that is not the person’s thoughts you are trying to connect with. 

Telepathy isn’t just about reading someone’s mind — it’s the intuitive exchange of thoughts, feelings, and energy beyond spoken language. When two souls have been intimately connected, especially in deep spiritual relationships, telepathic communication often continues even after separation.

You cannot use telepathy to change somebody’s mind; it’s meant to make you understand things better so you can have compassion and move on. 

How to use telepathy During Separation?

The guy I was dating suddenly left me one morning, without saying a word. We had a fight the previous night about my twin flame, and he couldn’t handle the truth and left before the break of dawn. 

He blocked me on all channels, and I was left without any conversation to reconcile. Even though I didn’t want to commit to him, I was still hurt. I felt like my voice had been taken away, and I had no chance of closure. 

I never intended to hurt this person, but I was aware that I did, and I wanted to tell him that. But how could I do that when there was no way of contacting him? 

Is telepathy real?

The only option to reach him would be telepathically. I had used my telepathic skills throughout the years to have conversations with people who were close to me. I had used it to tell some men I was into them, which often led to them approaching me very soon after. 

Even though I cannot scientifically prove that telepathy is real, I am convinced it is working for me. When you believe, that’s already half the effort. 

Your mind is more powerful than you think. Energetic connections are real. Synchronicities are real. I think telepathy is real, too. 

A telepathic example out of my life

Before this guy and I got together, we had a telepathic conversation. I remember feeling him reaching out to me one evening when I was lying in bed. He had already tried to flirt with me for numerous months, and I was not reciprocating at all. 

To be honest, I thought he was obnoxious, drunk, and annoying — I had no intention to answer his interest in me. Until that evening, when I opened myself up for his telepathic message. 

I pictured him sending thoughts towards me that he wanted me to hear. So, I told him I was open to receiving and started listening. 

I got such strong insights about why he liked me and why I should give it a try that I became genuinely curious. One thing he said was: “Why are you looking everywhere for the love of your life, while I am standing right here in front of you? Give me a chance and I’ll show you what love should feel like”. 

Giving it a try

These thoughts were not just in my head; after all, I was extremely annoyed by this person and did not want him to show me his love at all. But something about his words got me thinking. 

It was true that I was looking for the love of my life, and it was also true that I closed myself off very often. I decided to give him a chance, and telepathically told him to invite me one more time the next day, and I would say yes. 

To my surprise, the next day he indeed reached out. Not just inviting me, but telling me he would come over with pizza because he had gotten a strong message to ‘just go for it’. 

I didn’t refuse, and we ended up dating on and off for a year.

 

Some people come into your life for a reason

Even though our relationship didn’t last (mostly because I kept pushing him away), I still think we were meant to cross paths. I had to come into his life to teach him some profound lessons about self-love. 

You could say I was his false twin flame who initiated the change he needed in his life. He stopped drinking, became more spiritual, and finally chose himself, instead of loving me endlessly. 

These types of connections are still orchestrated by a higher force, even though they finalize at some point. He showed me how it feels if a man truly loves you, and I showed him he should never chase anyone who is not ready for his love. 

Our energetic connection forms the base for our telepathic abilities. Even though we are not physically together, the energy remains on a quantum grid. 

How to use telepathy to contact somebody?

Used consciously, telepathy can help you understand what still needs to be healed and offer closure on a soul level, especially when speaking face-to-face isn’t possible or emotionally safe. 

It creates space for forgiveness, compassion, and release from a higher perspective, allowing you to detach with love instead of reopening old wounds through direct contact.

How to get started:

1. Create a space where you’re not getting distracted

Telepathy can only happen when you are completely present. For that, you need to be in space without distractions. I use my bed for that, and often do it just after waking up or going to sleep. 

2. Prepare to really listen

Start with some meditation or breathing exercises. Clear your negative energy about this person and whisper that you are completely open to hearing their point of view. Be still and tune into their energy. 

3. Feel the connection

It does not always work. Sometimes the person you are trying to contact is really closed off. In that case, you won’t feel an energy coming in — your mind will get distracted again, and you will lose the present moment. 

But when it does work, you will hear the thoughts of the person in their own way of speaking. I don’t hear their exact voice, but I do hear their accent or intonation. 

4. Listen carefully and don’t judge

Telepathy is used to understand somebody’s higher Self, not their ego. A person might have hurt you a lot, but real telepathy connects you to their Soul and not their issues. 

Don’t surround yourself with negative thoughts about the person, but be really open to listening. Often, their higher Self tells a whole other story than you created in your mind. 

5. Aim for closure

Imagine the person is communicating with you to heal themselves as well. This helps with receiving their messages with honesty, and seeing their perspective also. Our higher Selves always have our best interests, as well as theirs. 

You are using telepathy to find closure or to understand things better, not to change their mind. You can tell your own messages too, but don’t manipulate them to get back with you. Just be honest with your true feelings. 

6. Wish them well

Thank them for expressing their thoughts and let them know you are open to whatever (or not). Believe they received your thoughts as well, even if they might not consciously know it. 

This is how synchronicities occur if they do reach out in real life. If it is meant to be, the Universe will make it happen. 

Using telepathy to communicate with somebody

Since I could not physically tell this guy about my side of the story, I used telepathy to reach him. At first, I felt a very closed energy, but at some point, I could hear him. 

He was very offended and hurt that I told him I would love my twin flame forever (the cause of our fight). The energy I received was very judgmental and angry. 

But I let him tell his part, truly opened myself for his perspective, and how it must have hurt hearing those words. I told him I was sorry, but that my truth was stronger than his well-being. 

After all, only my authentic Self can receive true love, not a version of me he created in his mind. 

Finding closure through telepathy

Since then, we’ve had many telepathic conversations — some still angry from his side, but more and more understanding. As time goes by, he acknowledges that I came into his life for his self-love. 

At some point, I received the strong pull to send him a real message. I saw he had unblocked me on WhatsApp and went for it. I told him I was sorry and never meant to hurt him. That I hoped he was healing and that our connection was not nothing. 

The next day, I received: 

“Thank you for listening. I now completely believe that telepathy is real. Goodbye.” 

He then blocked me again, but I can say whatever I need to say through telepathy. The key is to believe it yourself and see how it works.